There are up days and down days. If one watches the synestry grid, it is easy to see which days are down. For a both parties, look at the natal Sun against current transits. For a female, if the natal Sun shows quins, inconjuncts, squares, or oppositions, it will be a down day. The male natal would show hard neg aspects to the moon. Don’t argue or fight. These aspects will pass in a day or two or three and everything will be good again. Hope this helps.