Sunday, February 13, 2011

Victims and Victimizers

On Saturday, I was privileged to enjoy a great conversation with someone regarding this issue. In this blog, I want to clarify where we are going regarding the existence of victims and victimizers.

Upon to now and on into the future, for a short time, we will have both of these. For the present, we work with exhibiting both behaviors, UNLESS one is an Initiate and has learned to stop the unbalance. The masses have NOT reached this point.

In the conversation, the client mentioned that it is necessary to be a victim in order to have empathy and to learn how that feels. The same is true for being a victimizer. Once one has experienced both extremes, one has empathy and can slowly stop both behaviors.

I absolutely agree that this is true for the masses and occurs AT THE PRESENT TIME. Unfortunately, such victimization hits on all four levels and is extremely painful when we perceive it on the emotional and physical levels. We learn empathy by walking in the shoes of others. Once, in some lifetime, we have been a victim, we can empathize with people who are victims. Once, in some lifetime, we have victimized others, we can feel sorror for what we have done and we can stop such negative behavior.

Up until now (the Aquarian Age), it has been necessary to "walk in the shoes" so that we understand both extremes.

During the Aquarian Age, behaviors will change dramatically. Because of the developments in modifying brain structures and neuron pathways that lead to perceptions, IN THE FUTURE, people will be able to get into a virtual reality machine and emotionally feel both behaviors. This means one will no longer have to be a "real" victim or victimizer. One can work out these behaviors vicariously or in the virtual world.

People are beginning to see this as more and more hue-mans watch tv and movies, which is vicarious behavior, and play games. When someone has played war games over and over, one gets worn out with that or tired of it, and wants another experience. The war game thing is fulfilled and one cannot be drawn back into it, whether virtually or in reality.

The same is true for being a victim. It gets tiresome.

During the 2160-year Age of Aquarius, behaviors will change regarding war and peace (and this war can even be within the family, within the self as one sabotages the self) and we have the opportunity to have a peaceful world.

Only when we stop being a victim can we stop others from victimizing us. This means we may have to walk away from membership in an organization, family reunions, friendships, church groups, etc. - anyplace in which we are not respected. If the lack of respect is rearing its head, it is an opportunity for us to walk away rather than getting caught up in the imbalance.

While we deal with this in reality to a great extent now, the time is coming in which we will virtually have experiences that will lead us to a more peaceful existence.

Therefore, I agree with K. that one learns from being a victim and learns from being a victimizer. I simply believe that we will not have to continue learning in this way as we continue moving forward through the Aquarian Age.

I appreciate the conversation, which has given me the opportunity to think more clearly about this. Thank you K. for sharing your thoughts.

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